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How Comparison Syndrome Hinders Our Progress

April 12, 20233 min read

Career and social comparison syndrome is a common phenomenon where individuals compare themselves to others and strive to measure up to societal standards of success and happiness.

Understanding comparison syndrome and how it holds you back is the first step in overcoming the pressure. By releasing the burden of obsessive comparison, you can reach your full potential and live a fulfilling life. So, where do you begin?


What Is Career Comparison Syndrome?

Career comparison syndrome occurs when individuals constantly compare their career progress, achievements, and status with others. Constantly comparing yourself to others often leads to feelings of inadequacy, self-doubt, and a sense of being left behind.

Career comparison occurs when there is a culture of competition and comparison in the workplace. The comparison also extends to social media and the broader society.

How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to Others?

It’s natural to compare yourself to others from time to time, but it can be harmful when comparison becomes excessive and interferes with your well-being and personal growth.

If you’re struggling with comparison, then the following strategies may help you focus on your own potential, goals, and progress.

Practice self-awareness and recognize the triggers that lead to thoughts of comparison

Focus on your strengths and accomplishments

Set realistic goals that are based on your own interests, passions, and abilities

Limit social media use and only follow accounts that inspire and uplift you

Practice gratitude and focus on what you have rather than what you lack

Seek support if comparisons begin to cause you distress

Why Bother Wasting Time With Comparison?

Everyone’s journey is unique, and there are different milestones that individuals celebrate along the way. Social media, in particular, tends to show the highlights of a person’s life, painting a limited picture of reality.

It takes time and effort to compare yourself to others, often leading to feelings of jealousy, self-doubt, and inadequacy. In most instances, comparison is an unfair and inaccurate way to measure your progress or worth.

Rather than wasting energy on comparing yourself to others, it is more productive to focus on personal growth and development. Consider setting goals based on your own interests, working towards your goals at your own pace, and cultivating a sense of self-awareness and self-compassion.

By recognizing your own strengths and limitations, it becomes easier to practice gratitude for what you have in your life.

Surrounding Yourself With Positive People

One of the most powerful ways to combat comparison syndrome involves surrounding yourself with positive people. The decision can have a profound impact on your mental and emotional well-being as positive people can lift your spirits, inspire you to be your best self, and provide a supportive network when you need it most.

Positive people also help you see the good in challenging situations and encourage you to approach life with a growth mindset. They recognize your unique, positive traits and encourage you to succeed at your own pace.

In contrast, negative people can drain your energy, bring you down, and hinder your progress toward your goals. By intentionally seeking out positive relationships and distancing yourself from negative influences, you can create a more positive and fulfilling life for yourself.

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Jennifer Takagi

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